Friday, 25 January 2013

सफलता – जीवन का लक्ष्य ?

बहुधा ऐसा होता है
कोई मनुज यूं असफल होता है,
सुघ-बुध अपनी खो कर 
निराश उसका मन होता है; 
पर प्रिये, ईश की ही तो इच्छा है, 
जो हुआ वो अच्छा है.. 
परन्तु फिर, 
शायद ही ऐसा होता है 


मनुज वो श्रम ऐसा करता है 
जग में उजाला सूर्य जैसे भरता है..
निराशा की कालिमा छँटती ह यूं 
गृष्म में बादल तरसते है ज्यूं.. 
माना हे प्रिये, 
आकाँक्षा अकारण नहीं होती  
श्रम करो परन्तु, खुश रहो..
आखिर सफलता ही जीवन का मंजिल नहीं होती.!

Sunday, 12 August 2012

Teri Nishani

Jo Ache Hain, Unki Kahani Bhi Achi,

Ladakpan Bhi Acha Aur, Jawani Bhi Achi..

Tera Teer Apne Seene Me Chubho Lu,

Pr Kyu?

Kyuki Tera Nishana Bhi Acha Aur Teri Nishani Bhi Achi.!

Try & try till you succeed..,

Imagine that there is a journey you would like to make. It ultimately will take you to the realization of a dream. But you're hesitant. You wonder why you should even bother. After all, you don't have everything you'll need to make that journey. You may not even be sure you have the stamina, or the talent, or the courage. But believe me, you do have. You've everything you need inside of yourself. And any external resources you're currently lacking will be supplied to you if you only ask the universe i.e., almighty God!

In the course of realization of your dream, at times your energy levels are high as you gear up for new events. However, there may be chances sometimes that these events not meet your expectations. But, don't lose hope and never get disappointed. Keep your spirits high. Implement the first lesson learnt in the school i.e.Try & try till you succed!


Can you get blood from a stone?

Sometimes someone in your life comes off as very tough and unreachable. Although this person is someone you love or care for, it's really hard to get close to this person. This individual has so much to offer and, forging a deeper bond with her would be great for both of you. So how can you get blood from a stone?

The best way to get closer is to do so slowly but persistently. Ask questions. Open conversations about your oen experience. Share confidences. It's a long, slow journey that you can only take one step at a time but, the destination will be marvellous.

Tuesday, 7 February 2012

Tomorrow Can Be Too Late

If you're mad with someone,
and nobody's there to fix the situation... 

You should fix it.
May be today, that person still wants to be your friend.
And if you don't, tomorrow can be too late.

If you're in love with somebody
but that person doesn't know.. 
Tell her, 
May be today, that person is also in love with you,
And if you don't say it, tomorrow can be too late.
If you still love a person that you think has forgotten you...
tell her, May be that person has always loved you. 

And if you don't tell her today,
Tomorrow can be too late.
If you need hug of a friend.. 

ask her for it. 
May be she needs it more than you do.
And if you don't ask for it today, 
Tomorrow can be too late.
If you really have friends,
who you appreciate..

tell them. 
May be they appreciate you as well. 
But if you don't and they leave or go far away today,
Tomorrow can be too late.
If you love your parents, and 

never had the chance to show them, do it..
May be you have them there 

to show them how you feel. 
But if you don't and they leave today,
Tomorrow can be too late.!

Argument Doesn't Do Any Good

Rather than worrying about how an argument began or who is to blame for a problem that recently occurred, concentrate instead on finding a way to fix the issue. If you waste your time and energy trying to figure out how it happened, you could miss out on the perfect solution. You shouldn't be usually one to point fingers at others or to get so mired in this kind of confusion that there may be some very personal aspect to the situation that may left you feeling resentful and angry. 
Surely that won't do you any good. Besides, the detour you have had to take may turn out to be a blessing in disguise.
It is better said: Rather than arguing over an issue, have a discussion. Because in an argument, people tend to prove each other wrong making their point worthy. Whereas in a discussion, whatever is best comes out!

Whatever You Have, Enjoy It Fully

Some people collect things - such as dolls, decorative spoons, vintage bowls, and so on - that they will never use or even remove from the packaging in some cases. These people often keep their collections high up on shelves behind glass doors, or hidden in closets. Somehow they get satisfaction from knowing they have these treasures, but they never get the full joy out of ownership because they are too worried about keeping the items safe. There is something in our life at times, that we are happy to have but we don't do anything with it. To experience the best of it, though, we will have to take a chance and break the seal. 

So go and do the needful :-)

Turn On The Light

In a mostly dark room, where only pale lights and shadows are discernible, even the most benign objects take on frightening shapes. The bedpost might look like a witch. The curtains, as they rustle in the breeze of the open window, might appear to be ghosts. An overstuffed chair in the corner might appear to be a monster with his arms outstretched, waiting to grab you. 

But if you were to simply turn on the lights, the room would suddenly be cozy and warm and inviting. If your imagination is going crazy over an upcoming situation, just hold it on.  Have faith in your karmas and belief in the almighty. In fact, instead of going crazy just, Turn On The Light!

Help Yourself But Don't Be Foolish

Imagine you are walking through a thick, dark jungle, and you suddenly stumble into a pit of quicksand. The worst thing to do is struggle. You might feel inclined to start grappling for a vine or the edge of the hole in an effort to climb out, but the more you move the deeper you will sink.
Now imagine that someone you don't particularly care for walks by. Would you turn up your nose and refuse to ask for assistance, even though you can't climb out by yourself? Of course not! You are now stuck in a dilemma, but the only one who can help you is someone you don't care for. Do whatever but don't be foolish!

Many a times, we find us in such circumstances which are more or less like the same pit of quicksand. We indulge ourselves in huge dilemma wondering about what to do and, what not! Look if someone can be helpful. But whatever, the best way to deal is to - Help yourself.

Saturday, 31 December 2011

Be Hopeful With Every Opportunity

You would have heard it said that: Good things come in small packages. Sometimes really Big things come in small packages. And sometimes the package is so small and seemingly innocuous that you would never suspect it could contain anything wonderful. You may at times find yourself in the presence of a wonderful opportunity, but it's in a very small package that you don’t consider it as much rewarding as you want. Don't overlook it based on its surface-appearance. Check it out. Untie the ribbon. Un-wrap the paper. And you will be surprised by the potential of a seemingly tiny offer. It mostly have great things to surprise and Please us!

With Love.!

What Kind Of Relation(s) Are you Into?

When someone is in your life for a reason, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a god-send, and they actually are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrong-doing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now, it is time to move on.

Some people come into your life for a season, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it. It is real. But only for a season!



Lifetime relationships teach you lifetime lessions, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learnt to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but then, friendship is clairvoyant.!


With Love.!

We Need To Express The Love

It's another morning...

I have to go to the office.

WHAT????
This is me!!??
I shouted seeing my picture in the newspaper.

But what the Hell is it doing in the obituary column?

Strange.
One sec... Let me think, last night when I went to bed I had severe pain in

my chest, but I don't remember anything after that. I think I had sound sleep.

Its morning now, oh... It's already 10:00 AM, where is my coffee? I will be late for office and my boss will get a chance to shout at me.
Where is everyone? I screamed.
"I think there is a crowd outside my room, let me check." I said to myself.
So many people... Not all of them were crying. But why were some of them crying.
WHAT IS THIS??? I'm lying there on a bed in the drawing room!!!!
"I AM HERE”. I shouted!!! No one listened.
"LOOK I AM NOT DEAD”. I screamed once again!!! No one was interested in me.
They were all looking at me lying on the bed.
I went back to my bed room.
"Am I dead??" I asked myself.
Where are my wife, my children, my mom-dad, my friends?
I found them in the next room, all of them were crying.
Still trying to console each other.
My wife was crying. She was really looking sad.
My little kid was not sure what happened, but he was crying just coz his mom was sad.
How can I go without telling my kid that I really love him, I really do care for him...??
How can I go without telling my wife that she is really the most beautiful and the most caring wife in this world..??
How can I go without telling my parents that I am what I am just because of them...??
How can I go without telling my friends that without them, perhaps I would have done wrong things in life- thanks for being there always when I needed them. And sorry for not being there when they really needed me..
I can see a person standing in the corner and trying to hide his tears. Oh, he was once my best friend, but a small misunderstanding made us part, and we both never let go off our egos..
I went there.. And offered him my hand, "Dear friend. I just want to say sorry for everything, we are still good friends, please forgive me."
No response from other side, what the hell?? He is still preserving his ego. I am saying sorry, even then!!! I really don't care for such people.
But one sec.. It seems he is not able to see me!!!! He did not see my extended hand.
My goodness. Am I really dead???
I just sat down next to myself; I also felt like crying.

"OH GOD!!!! PLEASE GIVE ME FEW MORE DAYS."

I just want to tell my wife, my parents, my kid and my friends how much I love them.

My wife entered the room, she looks beautiful.
"You’re beautiful" I shouted.
She didn't hear my words, in fact she has never heard these words from me, coz I have never told her.

"God!" I screamed.. “a little more time plzzzzzzzzzzzzzz..” I cried.
“One more chance please-to hug my child, to make my mom smile.. just once, to make my dad feel proud of me at least for a moment..., to say sorry to my friends for everything I have not told and done for them-inspite of that for still being there for me..”
Then I looked up and cried..!!
I shouted..

"GOD!!!! ONE MORE CHANCE PLEASE!!!!"




"You shouted in your sleep," said my wife as she gently woke me up. "Did you have a nightmare?"

I was sleeping..??!!! Oh that was just a dream..??!!

My wife was there. She could hear me.
This was the happiest moment in my life!!
I hugged her and whispered…
"YOU ARE THE MOST BEAUTIFUL AND CARING WIFE IN THIS UNIVERSE.. I REALLY LOVE YOU DEAR.."

I just couldn’t understand that in spite of a smile on her face she had tears in her eyes... I was so HAPPY!!!!!


"THANK YOU GOD FOR GIVING ME ANOTHER CHANCE!!!"


It's Never So Late.. Forget your egos, forget all that has happened.., and just express your love to others...

Be friendly. Keep smiling and be happy for ever.!!

B'bye With Love.!

Monday, 3 October 2011

A Timely Success Or An Ultimate Success?

A meteor is a shooting star that creates a fiery streak in the sky as it blazes across it. When someone ascends from seeming nothingness to spectacular success at an astonishing speed, that person's ascent is described as meteoric. We sometimes find ourself in the realm of the stars. We feel that we have the opportunity to do something that warrants such an impressive description. What will it be? Will we crash and burn at an amazing rate? Or, will we concentrate our efforts and fly across the sky at lightning speed - grasping the success which we desire in the process? It's ONLY our choice.

FORGIVING THE SELF

We sometimes do not forgive ourselves for something. We all want to be a perfectionist in many ways, and hold others to high standards. But our high expectations for others are nothing compared to what we must expect from ourselves. But here's a newsflash: although we are willing to be an extremely perfectionist with a keen intellect and an excellent mind, we are not perfect. If we aren't happy with something that happened in the past, the first step to overcoming it is forgiving ourselves. Learn from it, and take the lesson with us. That's the very best thing we can do!

MIND - The Power Magnet

There are times when we find us in the domain of darkness, when there is no hope and, we are certain that nothing good can happen to us. We tend to believe that we will fail at whatever we put our efforts. If you assume you will fail at an upcoming challenge, then you will fail. That's because when you doubt yourself, a force of negativity takes over your actions. You lose focus. You doubt your ability. You begin to imagine all of the terrible affects that failing will have, which in turn causes you to become nervous.
On the other hand, if you believe you will succeed, then you will ultimately succeed. You will soon face a test of sorts. If you meet an imminent challenge with courage and confidence, you will prove to yourself just how powerful your mind really is.

Monday, 22 August 2011

FOR THOSE WHO HAVE SUFFERED



I asked God for strength, that I might achieve.
I was made weak, that I might learn humbly to obey...
I asked for health, that I might do greater things.
I was given infirmity, that I might do better things...
I asked for riches, that I might be happy.
I was given poverty, that I might be wise...
I asked for power, that I might have the praise of men.
I was given weakness, that I might feel the need of God...
I asked for all things, that I might enjoy life.
I was given life, that I might enjoy all things...
I got nothing I asked for- but everything I had hoped for.
Almost despite myself,
my unspoken prayers were answered.
I, among all men,
am most richly blessed!

ANONYMOUS

MESSAGE TO ALL

Success is not a destination but a path which always remains under construction!
Hi, everybody! 
Let me first tell you that this is an attempt to dishonor no one. In this message, there are two parts– one is for anybody and other is mainly for the students. Though, this other part can be read by Mr.Anybody too!
So here is the first part. Knowing this fact that Mathematics is the most important of all the sciences and also the most hated subject as well, I have been in search for the reasons of the same. In my view, the way Mathematics is taught at the root level causes the main trouble to the kids when they go to the upper classes. You would all agree that in lower classes, generally a student tends to memorize the comparatively difficult problems rather than understanding the concept required for it. We have to agree that “a child is just a child”. When he scores good marks in lower classes, he feels good. Gradually he starts scoring average marks and then when he reaches to the secondary or senior classes, he finds himself in real problems. He tries very hard, he solves the questions several times, and a few times when he gets correct answers by using the incorrect methods, he learns this incorrect method. This prompts him being, in the words of one of my tenth grade student, “the victim of mis-concepts”. And the worst thing is that no one tells him about his misconceptions. It feels poor that even the people who are given the responsibility to benefit the kid with a good share of understanding of concepts, also neglect their duties. But somewhere or the other, the parents are also responsible. They must make sure that their child is under the right guidance. The parents can’t take their skin off simply by paying money.
When I started the batch for tenth class in the session 2010-2011, I had all the students who were equipped with plenty of misconceptions, many of them didn’t know even how to do basic arithmetic operations of addition, subtraction etc. One can wonder if a tenth grade student is unaware of the fact that “a large number can be subtracted from a small number”, then how come he landed in tenth class? I didn’t know what to do at that time, which way to proceed to tackle the issue? It was an uphill task for me. Still I managed to convince the kids, their parents to support me and to have patience. I assured them that - “I shall make the kids to do all the good work; I shall discuss all that they are supposed to know.” And today, when I look at my students, their current level of understanding gives a comfort to me. A few are still to come up to the mark, but I’m sure with the continuous work they will also benefit. Giving my students the mantra to do work, the continuous and dedicated work has been really helpful. I always convey to them that “no body dies due to hard work”. I make sure that they do the work in right directions and in the right manner too. For the benefit of my kids, I attempt to motivate them by discussing the life styles of various people who have achieved heights in their respective lives. 
Looking back to where we were at the beginning, it feels really satisfactory at huge for our status at this juncture. It is great moment for me to share this secret with the world that I’ve been having good responses from my students. 
Now, I shall talk to the students. 
Dear students, I wish to share a few things about two extremely successful persons! 
The first person about whom I’m going to talk is a very popular and very easily recognizable name in perhaps, every street, every corner and every home. Let me see, if I’m right or not! He is the most dedicated man towards his duties and responsibilities. “The mind went back to the 1999 Cricket World Cup in England. He had to rush back to India after losing his father midway through the event. He stayed with his family for two days, and then returned to the event to do the duty for the country and he promptly scored a century.” He is the most popular sports person of the universe. Tendulkar, yes I’m talking about Sachin Tendulkar. In his own words, he says- “I play for the love of the game.” In the words of many veteran cricketers– The key to his success is his approach to the game, his humility to learn and try to do better all the time. He sets personal goals for himself for every game though he never talks about them openly. He prepares himself physically, mentally and emotionally before every match. He diligently prepares for every match. For him, a Test match begins two days earlier. Of course, years have rolled by in a flash, Tendulkar the wonder-boy has now become the senior most citizen of not only Indian but world cricket. Yet, his work ethics and his passion for the game hasn’t diminished one bit. He remains till date, the one who spends most time at the nets and faces maximum number of balls. He never plays a loose shot even at the nets. He is focused all the time; he wants to do better all the time. In fact, I suppose with every passing day he has to beat his own records, he is in competition with none but himself– the best competition. In fact, I think there have been many players with good temperament, yet they were not as much successful. Sachin is more successful due to his commitment and focus. He never backed away from his responsibilities. Sachin’s passion is what that sets him apart from the rest. When one is passionate about his duties, hard work becomes fun and those long hours of practice sessions seem interesting and challenging rather than routine and monotonous. Only this passion has helped Sachin tighten his technique and gave him the temperament to manage his innings well. His concentration, his discipline and his unquestioned ability, all make him so much Great for all, his admirers as well the opponents! And we all know what he is today! 
Now comes the other man I have talked about in above lines. He has become, at the age of 26, the youngest billionaire of the world. A book titled “The Accidental Billionaires” describes about him. A fabulous Hollywood movie called “The Social Network” based on his venture and life has been made on him. The movie is exceptionally made very well but the story it tells is much more interesting and amazing! He is Mark Zuckerberg, the founder of Facebook. He started Facebook from his college dorms six years back. Today, this privately held company is of worth $50 billion and now, more people visit the Facebook as compared to the old giant Google. When Mark founded Facebook, he never cared about making money. His main motive was to do something innovative, entrepreneurial, and most importantly, cool. At one point, he even says– “Money, or the ability to make money, doesn’t impress anyone around here at Facebook. The thing I really care about is the mission, connecting the people and making the entire world open.” 
Kids, do you notice that Sachin even now spends enough time at the nets session? Can you compare it with your life? If such a great man recognizes the importance of hard work and practice, how can we neglect it? Do you notice that he loves to play cricket, shouldn’t we also like to do our work with the passion and the right character? Dears, you have to be a dreamer like Mark Zuckerberg. You also are capable of achieving heights and fulfilling the dreams of your life. Come on kids, you will enjoy being at the heights but for that you must promise yourself to do the same which the great people enjoy to do. Can you enjoy? Are we ready? 

Yours OP Gupta
May 31, 2011.

Sunday, 21 August 2011

MATHEMATICIA - THE MOTIVE

The MATHEMATICIA is a series of books on Mathematics written by O. P. Gupta (my self). I have been taking classes of senior level students since 2006.
The blog MATHEMATICIA is an extension of various methods and innovative techniques of teaching Mathematics in an easy to digest format!
A sample can be obtained from the link given here : http://theOPGupta.com